You had unprotected sex with a girl when you were a child. It ended in pregnancy.
You are attacking the morality of a 14 year old girl who terminated a pregnancy that would have resulted in a child that neither you or her had the capacity to care for. A girl that preserved your and her own youth, and stopped a child being raised in circumstances that are not fit for any child.
You really should be assessing your own morality.
What kind of 14 year old boy fucks a 14 year old girl, without protection, gets her pregnant then runs an online smear campaign against her for doing what was best for her, her family and you?
What? You think you had the capacity to raise a child at age 14/15? How would you feed it or look after it? You wouldn’t. You were going to dump it on her or your own parents, live like the carefree little shit you are and occasionally play with the child when you could be bothered and think “Wow, what a good, brave young father I am.”
Man up. You made the mistake, she went through the trauma of saving your youth for you. You owe her so much better than this. You absolutely disgust me.
Less than forward-slash three, you’re real fucking remorseful. That’s poetry that is.
You’re breaking my heart kid.
BLESS THIS FUCKING POST.
Unpopular opinion here… There is no good reason for having an abortion. Sorry, but I disagree with all of you. This guy has every right to be upset. that girl killed an innocent human being. Sure they may not have been able to take care of the child at their age, but there’s always the choice of ADOPTION. At least with adoption, they could still watch the child grow up if they wanted to. At least the child could have lived. The baby did NOT deserve to die just because they made a mistake.
try pushing a watermelon out of your asshole
then act like having a baby’s no big deal you fucking shithead
and she was 14 do you realize how small her hips probably were
and boo hoo “an innocent human being” are you kidding me?
yeah, beacuse I seriously don’t know. I’m not a fucking ignorant kid Sure it could have harmed her. but they both should have thought of that before having sex in the first place. I’m sorry but I have more sympathy for the baby than her. They were both stupid for having sex that young anyway, I regret having sex at the age I started to, I’m just glad I was smart enough to prevent having a kid at that time. There have been younger kids who have had babies because they were raped, they’re perfectly fine, besides the trauma from the rape. Besides, a girl’s body knows how to naturally accommodate for a baby in their damn body, I’m sure she’d have been fine. Sure, her body might not have gone back completely to normal, but it wouldn’t have been completely destroyed, she could have worked to get it back to how it was, but whatever, like I said I just feel sympathy for the poor life that was taken, and I still feel abortion is murder, and murder is wrong.
Having sex does not make you stupid.
Anyone can have any kind of consensual sex that they want to at whatever age they want to have that consensual sex. That is their right because, guess what? Their bodies and sexualities are theirs, not yours.
Furthermore, fuck you if you think the only traumatic thing about being raped and getting pregnant is the rape. Rape is not just something that happens to you and boohoo you’re a little sad from it and then you get better. Rape can completely change your entire life, and take away your sense of safety, and hurt you for so long in so many different ways.
And getting pregnant from rape isn’t just, “Oh I got raped AND THAT SUCKED but whee I get to have a baby!” That pregnancy is a constant fucking reminder of what happened to you, of what was done to you. Being forced to carry a pregnancy is traumatic. It is your body being, once again, used for a purpose you did not consent to. It is being forced to endure an emotionally and physically exhausting, painful, and potential very fucking dangerous condition for most of a year, while being poked and prodded at by medical professionals if you have enough money for prenatal care, after you were already sexually violated, and then having to give birth, which is no cakewalk! Look up ‘birth rape’, and imagine undergoing that after being raped and then forced to carry what amounts to an unwanted parasite. And then, if you’re lucky, you get to arrange an adoption for that baby and try to go one with your life.
You get to let that baby be put into the foster care system, or raised by people you probably don’t know, and maybe you’re not allowed to ever have contact with it until it’s eighteen, maybe it won’t be told about you. Maybe you don’t want it to be, but maybe you do. Maybe you feel guilty because you couldn’t take care of your baby and society thinks that you should always be ready to drop everything and be a mother. Maybe you are teased and bullied about it. Maybe you wish you could have kept it but you couldn’t. Maybe you don’t even know how you feel, but it’s probably not very good.
And before that happens, while you’re busy being in this potentially fatal medical condition known as pregnancy with a fetus feeding off of you, trying to recover from the trauma of violation while enduring the physical, emotional, and chemical changes pregnancy wreaks on your body, you’re also probably being socially ostracized. People think you’re a slut, they think you’re a whore, they think you’re easy, they think you’re stupid, they think you should’ve kept your legs shut. If you work up the nerve to tell them you were raped, they think you shouldn’t have been drinking, shouldn’t have given him a handjob, shouldn’t have worn that skirt, shouldn’t have been at that party, shouldn’t have been dating him. You are blamed and bullied and teased and it’s just one more fucking thing on top of everything you’re already going through on top of the difficulty of being a teenager.
So fuck you. Fuck you for being a callous, unsympathetic asshole and pitiful fucking excuse for a human being who can’t even muster up sympathy for victims of rape, and for thinking that the only reason someone might be upset about being forced to carry a pregnancy is that they might not have their fucking flat stomach anymore. Fuck you for being shallow and terrible. Fuck you for having a complete lack of human empathy and pushing your misguided, privileged, controlling morals onto everyone else.
PS: That boy was not the one whose entire life was going to be ruined by her pregnancy. He’s not the one who’s going to have to bear the child, give birth to the child, care for the child, and deal with telling his friends and family that he’s pregnant. He’s not the one who might be thrown out of his house. He’s not the one whose friends might abandon him. He’s not the one who’s going to have to endure the stares and catcalls and insults and rudeness when he goes out visibly pregnant and fourteen. He’s not the one who has to suffer, and it’s not his uterus, and it’s not his choice.
PPS: As of 2006, over eighty percent of abortions were performed in the first twelve weeks, during which time the fetus is basically a blob of cells that in no way, shape, or form resembles a human being. Furthermore, a fetus does not have human rights until it’s born, considering that a fetus is not an infant until it exists separately of its parent’s body, at which point it gains the protection of human rights. Up until that point, the human rights of the uterus-bearer trump the potential rights of the fetus, which, whether you think it has a soul or is a potential person or isn’t a person until it’s born, is a blob of cells the size of a bean in the timeframe the vast, vast majority of abortions are performed. Abortions performed after that point, and in later weeks when there’s a lot more of a grey area regarding whether or not the fetus may be capable of or possessing personhood as we see it, are almost all performed for the sake of saving the life of the pregnant person or because the fetus would have been born with severe birth defects.